On Track to a Positive Identity
Nothing is more fundamental than our sense of identity. And identity depends upon perceiving a continuity
of self. When we do not behave consistently
with our sense of self, we feel self-alienated and try to remedy the self-continuity
dissonance. Self-continuity is an
internal compass that guides our actions, thoughts, and feelings. Moreover, when our sense of self is unstable,
the instability powerfully influences how others regard and relate to us.
Given the centrality of self-continuity, psychologists
carefully study the concept and its implications for our well-being. One such study focused on college student “derailment,”
meaning the discrepancy between how they had seen themselves in the past and
how they currently see themselves. Kaylin
Ratner and her colleagues (2019) sought to determine the derailment-depression
relationship within a sample of 939 undergraduates. The investigators were especially interested
in whether derailment could cause depression or be a consequence of it.
Each quarter of the school year, the students completed
measures of derailment and depression. Over
that period, scores on both were relatively consistent within individual
students. In general and overall, the
two scores tended to correlate intra-individually – for each person, high or
low scores on one predicted a similar level on the other. However, the Ratner group discovered, to
their surprise, that higher derailment scores earlier in the year sometimes preceded
lower depression scores at year’s end. To
explain the surprising result, the investigators speculated that the discomfort
of derailment probably caused some students proactively to reassess and/or
change their behavior. For instance,
those whose depression decreased might have perceived their early-year derailment
discomfort and responded by initiating salutary lifestyle changes later in the
year. Presumably that meant that they
either tweaked their sense of identity, or found a way to incorporate the new salutary
lifestyle changes into it.
The study can alert us to the value of introspection. We always can find some external reason why
we feel down. We can blame Donald Trump,
Bernie Sanders, Mark Zuckerberg, our spouse, or our boss for our discontent,
but there probably is little, or nothing, we can do to change them. By focusing on oneself, we can determine what
we are doing, thinking, and feeling. Then
we can begin to make the behavioral, thought, and emotional changes necessary to
turn our lives around, and restore a positive personal identity. More than anything else, we must focus on
what we can control and avoid dwelling on that which is beyond our
control. Of course, that presumes that
we are willing to initiate salutary changes for the controllables. Do your best to recognize when your sense of
self is derailed, and get back on track to reclaiming your identity!
Reference
Ratner, Kaylin; Mendle, Jane; Burrow, Anthony L.; & Thoemmes, Felix
(2019). Depression and derailment: A cyclical model of mental illness and
perceived identity change. Clinical Psychological Science, Vol 7(4), 735-753. http://dx.doi.org/10.1177/2167702619829748
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